Purple bracelets, day 3 (again)

Today's paper carries the whole story of the purple bracelets and the Complaint Free World idea. In today's world, where sarcasm and cynicism have become the norm, I think anything we can do to encourage positive thinking is a good thing.

And I'm still struggling along with my own experiment. I have certainly learned to pay more attention to what I'm saying, and I guess that's the first step. The next is actually implementing that censor.

Several people have asked me where to get the bracelets, and you can go to the link above and order them for free.

So what do y'all think? Is it a worthwhile experiment or unrealistic?

Purple bracelets, day 3!

Yes, I have been wearing the bracelet for nearly a week, and I've finally made it to Day 3 (and even that is with some creative rationalizing on my part).

This no complaining thing is difficult, especially when people around you are complaining. I've had to really be careful to bite my tongue or find the silver lining. Other times, I just end up chiming in and switching my bracelet.

Now, we'll see if I can get to Day 4...

Purple bracelet, Day 1

Purple, rubber bracelets have become the latest fad in popular religion. Inscribed with the words "A complaint free world," the theory is that the wearer pledges not to complain for 21 days. If they do complain, then they have to switch the bracelet to the other arm and start over.

I'm working on a story about a local church trying it, so I don't want to give to much away. But I also decided to try this trend for myself. My boyfriend has already laughed at me, doubtful that this will work. But that just gives me more encouragement - I really don't want to be the girlfriend that complains all the time!

So here are the definitions/rules I set for myself:

* Complaints are any whining or unnecessary criticism of another person, thing or institution, especially if I have no control over it.

* Honest evaluations or constructive criticism are OK, as long as I don't dwell on the negative. For instance, I'm going to do a restaurant review soon, and I'll have to be honest if the pasta is overcooked, but I don't have to whine about it.

* Only spoken or written complaints count.

* When I catch myself or someone else mentions it, I'll switch wrists.

So far, I've switched it once this morning. Let me know if you've tried something similar and what sort of results you're having!